
As usual, we had a great discussion last night. Our Glenn Latham parenting lesson was on toilet training, Chapter 18, p. 249. Consistent with all of Dr. Latham’s approach to parenting, he says to ignore the negative behavior (going to the bathroom in the diaper or having an accident in underwear) by not talking, tickling, singing or scolding when changing diaper or underwear. When the child is dry (diaper or underwear), praise child, give high fives, dance, sing, etc. Ingrid suggested starting out by checking child’s diaper every 30 minutes and praising when dry, saying nothing when wet. Everyone’s general consensus was to not force toilet training. Watch for signs of readiness of child. When child is ready, he will most often make the transition himself or herself.
Education at home- Use every day moments to teach children. For example, Ingrid put up an alphabet chart by the changing table when her daughter was one, and taught her the alphabet every time she changed diapers. Danielle likes to have her daughter count apples while they put them in the bag, and make up addition and subtraction problems with every day opportunities. Dixie said that when her children were young, she and her husband vowed to use correct grammar and speech around their children. Karmel shared a scripture binder strategy that has helped improve scripture study around their home. We all agreed fathers are important in using everyday moments to teach children.
Shauna Dunn gave a wonderful presentation on teaching children to love reading at the Thomas Jefferson Leadership Conference in March. She has graciously agreed to share her presentation with us, “The E’s and Ease of Teaching your Child to Love Reading”

Chapter members, Shauna, Danielle & Ingrid










































Brad Barton, myself, Whitney from Utah Netsmartz.net and John Gunter Jr. from Citizens For Families. I’m grateful to each of these professionals who came to help me pass along information on White Ribbon Week to PTA Presidents at the Provo Library on August 13th in an effort to promote the EDUCATION part of T.E.A.M. Decency. Here’s a link to the information we shared at this meeting.


















I was invited to be a judge for the Davis County Junior Miss Scholarship Program yesterday. It was a wonderful experience to see how well prepared and well-rounded these girls were. I wan’t familiar with this program prior to this invitation. Now I will recommend it to everyone who has teenage girls. These girls were so talented, poised, intelligent and fit! For fitness they performed a 5+ minute physical fitness routine complete with double time pushups. I would be thrilled if Abby participated in such a program in the future. These were high quality girls with direction, purpose and excellent training! I’d like to meet each of their mothers and get some tips! The judges were all so wonderful as well. It was an inspiring day of women seeking to improve themselves and their communities! The Provo Junior Miss Program will be in October, if any one is interested in that-I can connect you with the director.















































































One of my favorite Mapleton babysitters, cute Megan.
As defined by the online dictionary: Decency is “having a suitable conformity to basic moral standards; showing integrity, or other characteristics associated with moral uprightness”. As defined by me, decency involves encouraging any behaviors that promote strong family values. The vision of TEAM Decency is to speak out against anything in society and especially media and advertising that is indecent, violent, profane, demoralizing or pornographic. I am passionate about guarding what goes into the minds of our children. Over the course of the year, a variety of topics will be covered that touch all of our lives. Today I want to share ideas on improving our language.









A good friend of mine, Jed Wells, directed this film and it will be in Theaters this Friday, the 8th. Here is some info: (sorry for the lame format… but I’m packing boxes and moving, so quick blogging is the best I an do)






































…and soooooo excited to get to work sharing my platform.



















































































We’ve been getting LOTS of snow here in Mapleton! Above is Ben’s MEGA icicle he broke off of our house. Below are some more icicles from the front of our house. Lots of snow shoveling exercise.